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Become a Benedictine monk at St Augustine's Abbey, Chilworth, UK
Become a Benedictine monk at St Augustine's Abbey, Chilworth, UK

YOU ARE WELCOME. BEGIN THE SEARCH WITHIN
There is a reason you are here.
Take a moment. Be still. Ask honestly: what is God asking of me?
Take the first step. Take our 15-question discernment quiz here
DO NOT DELAY
As of March 2026, we find ourselves in the unusual and encouraging position of running out of rooms for monks and those exploring a vocation.
We are a small monastery with just 15 cells, and interest has risen significantly, particularly from men here in the UK.
But a reality check: a vocation is tested over years, not weeks. Interest can rise and fall. What matters is perseverance. If this call is real, it will not go away.
COME AND SEE
The only way to discern properly is to experience monastic life for yourself.
We normally recommend short stays in our. Monastic Guesthouse, repeated visits over time, and a gradual, honest process of discernment. You will encounter the life from the outside, while we begin to know you and you begin to know us.
Staying in our Monastic Guest House is by invitation only and by donation. Please enquire well in advance if you would like to stay for a few days.
Contact Dom Andrew by email at domandrewmcneill@gmail.com or click here.
You will need to arrange and pay for your own travel. If you are coming from afar, we suggest visiting other monasteries in the UK as well.
OUR COMMUNITY
St Augustine’s Abbey, Chilworth is a living Roman Catholic Benedictine monastery.
We are a community of around 10 monks, along with others discerning a vocation. Some are ordained priests, while others are brothers. All live the same monastic life under the Rule of St Benedict.
We welcome serious enquiries from men considering becoming a Roman Catholic Benedictine monk.
You may also wish to follow our more informal daily life on Facebook. Click here.
WHAT IS A MONK?
The word monk comes from the Greek monos, meaning one.
A monk is a man with a single aim: to seek God.
This is not one interest among many. It becomes the centre of everything.
TESTING THE CALL
If you feel drawn to this life, you must test it.
A genuine vocation is often persistent. It does not disappear easily. Even when others discourage you, it quietly returns.
At some point, courage is required. You must make contact and come.
Remember that the monastery is discerning you and you are discerning the monastery.
Ask yourself: will these men help lead me to God?
THE BENEDICTINE LIFE
St Benedict gives clear signs of a true vocation.
First, the search for God. Not talent, not status, not usefulness, but God alone.
Second, love of prayer. The monk is in choir seven times a day, attends daily Mass and prays the Psalms each week. You must want to praise God daily if this life is to make you happy.
Third, obedience. Following Christ’s example, the monk seeks not his own will but the will of God, lived out in obedience to the Abbot.
Fourth, humility in daily life. Cooking, cleaning, and ordinary tasks are part of the path to holiness. It is about setting aside self and growing in charity.
Fifth, charity in community. Learning to live patiently with others’ faults and failings is central. This is at the heart of the Rule of St Benedict.
PRACTICAL NEXT STEPS
Before visiting, read about St Benedict and his Rule, explore our website and pray seriously about your intention.
If, after visiting, the call remains, ask to speak to the Novice Master.
FREEDOM AND THE MONASTIC LIFE
One of our Benedictine monks, Fr John Seddon OSB, writes:
“Many would perhaps see my life as a voluntary prison where freedom is non existent.
I certainly feel free.
My desire for God explains everything.
Prayer, Mass, study, and community life help me to love God and my neighbour.
We become what we do. Good acts make us good.
The monastery gives me the means to become what I most desire.
Therefore I am not only free, I am content and happy.
They are happy who dwell in your house, forever singing your praise.”
A FINAL WORD
If this has stirred something in you, do not ignore it.
Take the quiz. Make contact. Come and see.
God does not call in vain.
Carry on reading below about a person's suitability for monastic life and the discernment process........
The Monastery
The Monastery
The Monastery is the place where a monk lives out this search with his brethren. To find God he has to become mindful of Him. The prayer, study and work that make up an ordinary day are all organised to help him remain closely united to God at all times. Silence is also practised to help him avoid sins of the tongue by avoiding unnecessary talk.
You may feel God is calling you to live in this way. It is a challenging and disciplined life and, if lived with integrity, will lead directly to God. However, it is one way. There are other equally valid ways. So, if you feel a call, it needs to be tested. How does one begin?
Firstly, if the call is persistent, discuss your feelings with a priest or monk you can trust and feel at ease with. You may be a little afraid at first of even admitting to yourself that you feel called. So, you need to find the right person. After perhaps lengthy discussions, you will be in a position to know whether a visit to us would be appropriate for you.
A good way to test your vocation without any obligation is to come and stay with us at St Augustine's Abbey, Chilworth for a few days in our monastic guest house, something you might like to repeat from time to time: BOOK A ROOM IN OUR GUEST HOUSE HERE by email to Dom Andrew at domandrewmcneill@gmail.com
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Suitability for a monastic life
The following criteria is used when considering a man’s suitability for the monastic life. The criteria are a guideline used within the discerning and decision process. Don't worry if you don't meet all of the criteria; we welcome and sensitively consider all enquiries on an individual basis.











